How to Know the Difference

Enabling

When I Feel
Responsible For Others

Caring

When I Feel
Responsible To Others

I Fix . . . and

I show Empathy . . . and

I feel Tired . . . and

I feel Relaxed . . . and

I am concerned with:

I am concerned with:

I am a manipulator. I expect the person to live up to my expectations.

I am a helper-guide. I expect the person to be responsible for himself and his own actions. I can trust and let go.